I didn't realize only Faithful was allowed to offer opinions.
Some decisions are temporary and some are permanent. And sometimes you have to change decisions based on real life circumstances. It's how life goes.
I have probably spent more time posting to Kevin than anybody. Helpful is rather subjective, no?
I think my advice is helpful. I think the people that cheer on Kevin for making mistakes that will harm his future (and I don't mean as far as the marriage goes) are not very helpful. Obviously we all think our advice is helpful or we would not take the time to offer it.
Kevin wants more than anything for his W to feel consequences. Fine. In turn though he is so busy with that thought pattern he rarely thinks of his OWN consequences. And now a big one is coming up.
When you are in the thick of your own mess (generally speaking) it is not easy to see what is obvious.
And if you would like to address me I would appreciate if you would do so in another way other than "yo". CityGirl is fine. Nicole is fine. Nic (what my friends call me) is fine. You pick.