I feel for ya, girlfriend! My D18 is going through a tough time right now, as well. Acting out, irresponsible, spewing hatred at me (because I enforce consequences), etc... Luckily, or not, she's in her own apartment and going to a Junior College. I finally had to tell her to stop making requests of me, and stop putting me as her back-up contact re: lease, work, school, etc..., because I can't handle the constant calls w/bad news. I'm only responding to her when she's not asking for something. DONE!
So, I TRULY feel your pain!
14, huh? That's a lot. Is Dad capable of handling punishments, rules, etc...?
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
