Many people I talk to who know about our sitch say that my W tells them we are separated and is very nice about it.
Something these 'people' are not telling you is when they talk to your wife and ask her 'why', or 'what's going on', she tells them, 'He just doesn't do it for me anymore.'
And, that she really is enjoying the single life.
I'd like to go back to something you brought up in an earlier post :
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
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I don't know if my wife is a WAW or in MLC or both. We are both in our mid 30s with no children. I'm confused because my wife is acting so weird. As other have said on this board, I feel like shaking her and telling her to wake up.
Something or someone shook her up already and She did wake up. That is why YOU are here and she is NOT.
It really doesnt matter whether she's in MLC, or a WAW. You really do have to stop living in denial and hiding behind trying to figure out how these textbook terms apply to your wife. The fact of the matter is you got dumped. Several months ago. And not only has your wife got a taste of independence and freedom she is at the point she has realized she likes it. Something more is going on that you do not know about.
She has moved on and life is good.
Read that again and understand the importance: She has moved on and life is good.
I am not picking on you, I just am not going to tell you what you want to hear. Because it is not the case. There is a reality to this situation. You must begin to face it to start getting ahead.
Look at what you wrote above :
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Since she left three months ago she has taken her name off most of our joint bills and doctor's accounts, forwarded her mail, taken a large sum of money from our joint account, talked with a L, wants to draft a separation agreement, wants a D, wants to go to counseling together for "closure"
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Her personal changes since she left three months ago are changed her hair color, cut her hair very short, some new clothes, spending money on spa treatments (massages), new cell phone, new purse, blocked me from her Facebook account (I can't even see that she even has an account anymore), changed back to her maiden name
OUCH! She is done, mza. She changed her address, changed her look, changed her hair color, changed her phone number and changed her name, these are things people do when they don't want to be found.
"I know some might be thinking she is having an A but I know for a fact she is not...can't say how I know but I know."
you have to say! tell us! is she obese? have huge goiter on her forehead? is she the cheerleader that can only walk backwards after getting the H1N1 vaccine? AIDS?
or possibly you haven't told us about something that you did that would make your wife run away and never look back.
