My D was finalized feb 09. I am happy by myself. If I get lonely, I go out. Or call a friend. I go to dinner alone. I go to dinner with friends. I take ladies to dinner. I take ladies dancing etc. I have been doing this since I moved out of the marital home.
I am putting myself out there without intentions. I have no expectations other than enjoying myself and other people. I am casually dating. I practice new skills. Setting boundaries with some of my less mature friends. So much easier to refine skills with people who are not stonewalling.
Friday night, I went out with friends. Met a lady that stated "your so sexy". Want to know how that feels? Later, a young lady said "your real cute" want to know how that feels?........Saturday took a lady out dancing. We were twice as old as most of the people in the club, but had a blast.....Sunday went to rockabilly concert with my gal-pal...Lots of people watching....This coming.Wednesday-been invited to go out with another female friend... most likely taking a lady dancing Thursday, then back to Mr Mom for a week.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
