Clingy/needy isn't attractive. I get it now. No one can do this except Goldey. Of course, a little help never hurt. The men who are helping are not law enforcement, and since they are people I care about, I'll not put them in harm's way. If I get to court in time, that's fine...if not...it's just stuff. He is, however, intimidated by my sister. She's on her way to Portland. And she is my bestest friend in the world. When she is around, I feel safe, and strong. Thanks for the prayers, all, especially those for my foot and for Bears #1, #2, and #3. I miss them, a lot. I'll be dark, lurking here and there both here and in the alt...but I'm in very good hands. love, Goldey