DBURT: I do believe that is important that she feel the consequences of her decisions,, but actually, I believe it is more along the lines of the MC not want to appear taking sides.. in previous sessions if either of us had any contact with him, (ie. calling him to look into retrovaille, telling him a problem came up that I would like to discuss in session etc..) that was the very first thing he would mention at the beginning of the session to both of us. He was also VERY cautious of him talking alone with either of us (waiting room, after session etc..)
I can understand him not wanting the appearance of taking sides, but when one partner shows a definite disinterest in MC (W by her actions and words), I think whats best for the kids should have some priority...
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H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09