Whether to date is a personal choice you will have to make for yourself. I don't believe ther eis a timetable on these things.

Just because she wants to date other men does not mean you should do it, too, if you're not comfy. If you are, then do what you need to do.

There is no doubt yu are in a vulnerable position right now due to everything you are going through.

I personally am not ready to even invite the thought of a date into my mind. My head is seriously jumbled right now. But everyone's different.

Have either of you filed for a D or other paperwork?

IC may be a superb idea, JeffD.