Not really piecing and trying not to jinx it, but

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I don't even know if that had anything to do with it. It was filed almost 2 years ago and it was a matter of time. It probably would have been a mess to cancel? Who knows. This is the one topic that has not come up at all over the past few months.

It doesn't bother me under the circumstances. It is a piece of paper. We lived together for almost 5 years before we married--moved 900 miles away from family and bought a house together in that time and had all our money joint, so even though I loved our wedding and it was the happiest day of my life, for day to day realities, it was a piece of paper then too.

I can always be in denial and say that since we were married Catholic that according to them, we're still married despite what NY says. I think I'll text him later and say that now I won't have to feel so guilty about sleeping with a married man. LOL