Don't know where to post this.

[TrentC]

Thank you MichelleLT.

The other thing that she has said time and again is that it is unfair that I am making all of these changes in me now instead of years ago when she first asked. It makes her angry.

I have told her that I was sorry but I had to hit rock bottom before I could truly see the faults that I had and the changes that I had to make.

Anger is a normal response, but she won't stay angry at you forever. The important thing is to make sure those changes stick, so once she's over the anger she may come to appreciate the new and improved you.