I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[talia]

HI Mark,
I know how you feel! I chased H right out the door looking back, and then after he left I drove him right to OW. At least you are here now! Someone on here has a quote that says every day is another chance to get it right.

I'm not sure that typical WAH stuff would work on him. I'm trying to understand if his low self esteem and abuse issues make him react differently than a typical WAH. Maybe I'm overthinking things?

H was texting me this weekend to do something for him and I didn't respond. Last night he accused me of being spiteful. I don't understand why he still seems to think that I should be available for every little thing. I frusterates me. Should I pick my battles or toe the hard line with everything?