Your W is going to provoke you. There are different levels on how they do this. Be ready on how to respond to the worst few. That makes the others easy to respond to.
Some issue restraining orders on the LBS without a real issue (IE they lie to the police). I decided at one point that I would not be alone with W (better safe than defend against false allegations). If the kids were not home, I would not be alone with W. If you need to speak with W in private away from the kids, meet in a public place. Starbucks or similar...
Some hit the LBS. Best response is to call the police and have issue a RO against WAS.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
