Nothing much going on here at the homefront. I still have not been served with separation papers. I was actually waiting on them because I figured by now he would want to get things underway since he was so adamant about divorce. He also has not listed our marital residence a month after our realtor friend came over. I made it very clear to him since the beginning that if he wanted this divorce, I was in NO WAY helping him by filing or listing the property. I am already stressed enough and frankly to take that on and not really want it just felt wrong.
I hadn't heard from my H in two days over the weekend. He was supposedly out of town visiting his family, but I'm not sure if I really buy that one. He called last night over something stupid and I ended the conversation quickly. He wanted to tell me he was bringing our roommate home because he was ill and just wanted to make sure I was home. I was a little irritated about this because I have no one to take care of at this point but me, myself, and I. To call and expect me to do this for "his" friend that he let move into our home a week before he dropped the bomb on me. Akward having him here to say the very least, but he will be gone at the end of the month *fingers crossed*.
He sent me an email this morning stating he was having a bad day after only brief encounters with me over the past 2 weeks. I replied by sending him some cute pictures of our dogs I had taken in the last week and said maybe these would cheer him up. He thanked me and said he really "needed that" this morning. Perhaps trouble in paradise with the OW????
