well that sucks. well, guess in a way that gives him the right to let you know in your last 30 minutes, or it leaves that loophole for him to do that. I would call the attorney or whomever and ask what you can do, or if you can change it because that is not fair to you. Or just make that time your cleaning house time, doing laundry, that kind of stuff. is it just once a week?
looks like the last txt went okay. too bad he can't get off his depression and start being a father. that is sad. but perhaps when you continue to live a healthy life and eventually things around him will keep deteriorating, maybe he will learn. ? who knows. I would keep encouraging him when he does things right though. if he comes to visit, take a picture of them and tell him how great it will be to show the picture to her when she's older, or tell him how she missed him, or whatever. only about baby though, nothing about you.
some of you may totally disagree, but I say this because this man is going to be in your D's life forever. do you want a pathetic man or a healthy man? a healthy R between him and your D, or a pathetic R? Obviously you want a healthy R and you want him to be a good dad! So, encourage the little tiny good that he does so that it can grow.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
