I think it will just take a while for him to get over the OW. They have to mourn over that Relationship first. It took my H over a year for that to happen to the point he wanted to come back home. He still struggles with losing the OW, even as just a friend because she will walk right by him and not even speak. I will never forget him telling me that whatever happened between them, they would ALWAYS be friends! Not anymore.

Give him time to get his head straight. Like Snodderly said....Dig deeper for more patience. It is a very long process.

Last edited by kissak; 01/19/10 03:31 PM.
Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10