Hi Kevin, my health is ok I guess. I lost a lot of weight which I can't afford to lose but I'm working on it.
25 thanks for all of your advice, but the $750 is my half of what I would have to pay and H would have to pay the other $750. I wouldn't even know where to come up with that. As far as the spousal support it will be cheaper of course to take him for that so I guess that is what I will do when I get the new tax bill. The only problem like I said before is that he won't pay towards the big loan we owe and it will end up evening out in the end.
I don't know what else to do legally, since I don't have the $750 and is like saying to someone else they need $7,000. And if I did have it which I don't I only have a 50/50 chance of winning since they don't like legal separations here. They want to wait for the D. My lawyer says to wait because he doesn't want me to lose the $750 and feels I might lose it in the end.