Ok so here are my goals...This is an area that I can have a hard time with so please help:
1. No talks about OR 2. I will not pressure her 3. I am going to schedule my day i.e. work out, movie, spend time with friends...etc 4. I will not initiate conversation. 5. I will appear positive and comfortable at all times. 6. I will listen to her actively but I will not believe the WAW script. 7. I will also do little things I learned from the 5 love languages without looking for comments, appreciation, or reciprocation. I will do them because it helps me to love honestly.
Things I will be looking for are: 1. She will initiate conversation a little more. 2. She may ask me to run with her ( This has been important to her so I know it would be a good sign) 3. Before the separation she had begun to ask to watch tv with me and to talk some and was talking less with OM. The only reason I feel this is a realistic goal is because I have seen it happen.
Any advice with this would be great. Also any advice or suggestions on how to be mysterious would be great too. I know that one would work but I think it would have to be in a new way. One of her things is she gets mad when people compliment me or comment my page because she says she knows the REAL me. Thanks all.
