I am a bit concerned she may try to provoke you into being physical yourself. If she comes at you again, calmly take our your IPhone and start video recording her actions. State the following words, "I am recording your actions
Yes! This is a boundary to set. She doesn't get to hit or put her hands on you just because she's female.
"W, I will not allow you to put your hands on me. If you persist, I will call the police." Then do it.
Hang in there!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!