Our MC told me that she will never get what sex means to me, so quit trying to explain it to her, she will never get it.
That really hit me hard and somehow relieved me. Is this a hormone thing with her, does she not have needs in that area? Sex therapist, being suggested? I will go back and read some of your Sitch, so you do not have to reply on things you have probablly gone over adnauseum.
Good luck,
Burt
I stopped expecting her to get it a while ago. The issue with her is that she is not "in love" with me and thus does not have a desire to be physical with me. Whether its emotional or physical is hard to tell. If she was "in love" with me and did not have a desire than I would say it was a hormone thing. I know she does not want it or need it as much as I do that I have learned to live with but the not at all is what I cannot live with. Its part of a healthy R and a loving M and I don't think I should settle for less than that.
