Yes we have had this convo before. Which brings me right back to the trial seperation and me moving out. Not a threat, not meant to hurt or force her hand or any of that stuff. Just a way to maybe break this cycle and give us both a different persective.
Will we miss each other, will we not? Will it bring us closer or move us further apart? Is it the right thing to do or not? Trust me I have debated it many times and did nothing about it until this weekend. Its the sh** or get off the pot deal.
It also brings me back to what Ken said. Do it without any expectations of how it will play out and do it for the right reasons. That being because it is the best thing for me at the moment and not to force her to miss me/ want me back.
But as in all these choices it is figuring out what is the true reason for doing it and only I can answer that one. I did not make the suggestion lightly nor on the spare of the moment. I'm trying to keep emotions out of it but thats hard to do. I'm pretty easy to read I wear them on my sleeve and that's a bad thing sometimes.
