Looking for help with WAW

[Gnosis]

Just had a brief look at your thread. Didn't go into much detail or read the advice given to you.

1) If you want to talk with your wife you do it FACE-TO-FACE. In other words you cut off all other communication with her. Texts, emails, phone calls. IGNORE ALL OF IT.

2) NO MC for the two of you while she is in walkaway mode. Get it? Why are you submitting to her every request.

3) Your wife doesn't respect you. You act like a needy, clingy little boy with her. She wants to be married to a man. So BE A MAN.

4) STOP REACTING to everything she does. Start preparing yourself so that you can start RESPONDING to her words and actions.

5) Don't let your FEARS control you and hold you back from doing the right thing.


You are letting her drag you around by the nose. She is leading you... you bow to her every whim. This has to STOP.

Lastly, I agree with what Gucci wrote to you. I don't know if it HAS progressed to an affair yet or not, but she is DEFINITELY out there looking.

This is the link to TriDoc's thread. READ IT.

Another thing I can tell you... the people here are here to help each other. They have spent a lot of time reading up on your situation and more hours writing out details responses to you.

Show them some courtesy and follow the advice given. You don't have to follow all of it. The good ones realize that we're only getting half your story which comes to only 25% of the entire situation. It is YOUR job to use your own intuition to discern the logic.