Back here, for the second time... #69

[AliSuddenly]

Hey.. you snuck back in!! Welcome back to piecing sunbeam

I heard that too.. a FEW people were against me taking bf back, because they said, he "is a weak man" and I thought.. yeah, but so what? Theres worse things to be. He's also kind, loving, good partner, a man of principles, great politics, astute, intelligent, funny etc etc. What are your H's good qualities?

Freckle, thats a great post and also Bobbi, yes we have to take responsibility for what lead us here. Ok, some woman are predatory on M men, but men arent necessarily got unless they are ripe for getting at.. I know bf withdrew around the time he met Helen at work, but I also know he noticed Helen because our R had grown stale and I was too dominant (he said he no longer felt appreciated/listened to).

I actually remember my 'loss of innocence' moment, when I was 7 and discovered that adults hurt and divorce each other (I discovered my uncle was leaving my 8 month pregnant Aunty for a woman he met at work). But its necessary right, for growth, to lead to the nectar within..? Else we'd all be naively floating around like prozac'd robots