I need to detach more because I found out she just lied to me about what she told me she was doing when she called...I think she is cake eating so I am not going to be a victim. Also I think it will do some good for me to get a little too busy all of a sudden.
This isn't good b/c she certainly has not made any changes. I don't know if she's giving the impression that she is willing to work on the M or not, but in reality she isn't going to work on it as long as OM is in the picture.
Brace yourself b/c when you go home, there will be no difference than when you left. BTW, I don't know if the two of you will have sex or not, but you better use protection! Don't want any nasty little surprises popping up.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
