My W called the IC/MC yesterday to ask for another session of MC, to list her demands(?). I refused to set up another session. IC said that I would be hearing from her L.
I came home ate dinner and went upstairs since she was watching TV. She came upsatirs a few times, then left and went back down to sleep on couch.
I just went downstairs and found this letter written to me.
"OP, I tried to talk with you and IC/MC because I realize that I had not been really clear. This sich is not about my job or menopause. I realize that in choosing the direction for our life I participated by letting you for the last 2 years and before to keep living in the same way. This was because of my belief of how a R should be but it created more resentment and anger in me rather than improving the sich. I need to know that I can count on you to step up and become a contributing member in this R. This is a deal breaker for me.
I can only assume that as you are not willing to discuss this that there is no way for my needs in this R to be considered and that you have move on.
MRS OP"
Any comments on what I should do. I understand that these are just words there were no actions except the act of writing the letter to me.
