Well for me, that's exactly how H was for at least five months. He was always "too busy". He complained about "never having a moment to himself" even though he moved out. It made no sense whatsoever to me. i think he was avoiding his feelings by constantly being busy. It's a way to shut down. This has passed with us too. H is taking even five or ten minutes here or there to stop and talk and listen with me instead of claiming to be too busy to think or talk.
