S, don't think I've ever written anything to you before...
For this...
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
S is home now and was kind enough to inform me my H allowed him to meet the OW and she is NICER then me and she is as gross in person as she is in her picture however he would rather be with her then me - I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS...WTF???
This ...
Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
It's time to stop focusing on anyone other than you. I think the OW is new to your S, just as she is to your H. Ok, not in the same way... But she has never had to atually be his parent, so it's no surprise she's "more fun"! It will wear off, in time. He'll remember who really loves him!
Remember what spew is? That's what your son is doing now... spewing... to intentionally hurt you because he can't get his way with you.
If I was you, I'd insist that he go stay with his father. H won't let son cramp his style. Don't take "no" for an answer from H. Let son HEAR his father's rejection. Don't get in the way of it. Don't protect him. It's a lesson the little shirt needs to learn... the HARD way.