I know you're doing most of this already, but it might bear repeating... it's a partial of what I posted to TriDoc:
Conduct in the Home: ====================
1) Walk around like you own the place... because you do. 2) NO skulking in the corners or hiding in the bedroom 3) Take control of the remote. 4) Ignore her. 5) NO housework... you are not the maid. 6) Be polite like you're talking to a (mental) patient when discussing anything about the kids 7) The kids IS all you talk about. 8) Act like the epiphany you've had
Thinking of you.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT