Keep Your Hands Offa My Mojo

[Kettricken]

... having a "label" gives you a framework for doing that in many ways. and it helps when you go back and reclaim who you really are when you're not in a relationship that requires you to be who someone else wants you to be.

I can *totally* see this. A label, a framework, it brings some level of structure to the chaos, yes??

Nuance probably comes later.....