Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
hey, are you afraid to tell him if he does not contact you within 30 minutes after his time starts that you will go on with your day plans? otherwise, your going to be asking every single time.



Im not afraid to ask...just afraid of it not being the right thing and somehow it comes back to bite me. Our papers are rather vague so I am not sure if I can start changing things and making demands without making sure its ok.

This is what our papers state:

" Respondent's visitation time is between 3-6 P.M. He can stay minimum of 30 minutes to a maximum of 3 hours. Respondent (exh) must contact Petitioner (me) and let her know when he is coming."

So nowhere does it state that I can just assume his silence means he is not coming nor does it say when he has to contact me. Does that make sense? smile


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!