MarkG,
thanks for your insight. perhaps "game" was mis-used. I have gotten myself to a very good place and I know I will be fine with whatever happens in my sitch. In a way my actions are a game, but I know that my confidence is so high that there is no way I could show my hand. I have learned greatly from past mistakes.
thanks


me 31
her 31
ilybinilwy 10-2-09
i moved out 12-13-09
boy 7
girl 3
boy 16 months