MarkG, thanks for your insight. perhaps "game" was mis-used. I have gotten myself to a very good place and I know I will be fine with whatever happens in my sitch. In a way my actions are a game, but I know that my confidence is so high that there is no way I could show my hand. I have learned greatly from past mistakes. thanks
me 31 her 31 ilybinilwy 10-2-09 i moved out 12-13-09 boy 7 girl 3 boy 16 months