Had another great day today. Talk alot about everything and we really connected. Her actions have definately taken a 180. She is initiating touching and has mentioned interest in having sex again. She is also being extremely flirty and talking very sexual about things that she knows turn me on. I had to put a hault on her advances and continue to talk of my future relationships with other W. I plan on holding out on sex if the issue persists at least for a couple weeks using the idea the "you really want what you can't have mentality". Any other comments on this?

Sex is very sacred to her and she has always said that she could not have it with someone she did not love. I have also heard that once a woman has sex with someone she feels she is in a committed relationship (when you feel connected sex of course). Any women out their that could give insight on this.
I just fear that I would be dropping my leverage if I gave in so soon.


me 31
her 31
ilybinilwy 10-2-09
i moved out 12-13-09
boy 7
girl 3
boy 16 months