Wife wants best of both worlds

[Kemper]

DW,

Very insightful post yesterday. It helps me feel better about moving forward with my situation. I can only hope that OM fails.

MSH,

All too often we put prioritize our lives in this order, Work, children, ourselves, spouse, God.

I couldn't agree move. IMHO this priority order why the downfall of my R/M.

DW,

She did not understand it nor did she like it but I stayed firm.

I think this was the best thing you could do personally. I know that I want to be in the house when my W moves out. I will also have in the move-out agreement that once she is out the locks are getting changed.

It also shows your W that you will not roll over at any request and have no issue standing up for what you believe in.

Also great to hear the conversation went well and was civil.