Peace, I am understanding now that even if we are the ones who were dumped, we are in a better situation than the X.

Figure that they are on top of the world when they leave--or shortly thereafter, when they can be with OP. We are devastated.

Slowly, surely, things change....


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D