She told me she is caught between being my best friend and being my wife.
Oh, hog-wash! That is just a bunch of WAW BS. Tune it out.
You are doing pretty good. I think you are wanting to her her compliment you on your changes, and a great deal of that is normal for new LBH's.....but it is not how it should be. The changes should be for you, in order to like yourself more and doesn't matter if she likes them or if she doesn't want you to change. It's not to get her back, and I think you realize that, but you still want to hear that she's happy with what you've done.
You need to make yourself less available to her and keep the phone calls shorter. Find something that you have to do.....remember you are a busy man being "involved" in GAL. Makes you more interesting.
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She has asked in the past for me to stop making changes because it makes her doubt everything.
Sounds kind of crazy....but I think I know what she means by that.
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I hate that I have opened the door for all this.
What do you mean?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
