As far as L “giving in” goes, she has mentioned to me that for the past three years, when she claims she was so miserable but didn’t openly, or frequently at least, show it, that I always got my way. She says that it was all about what I wanted, and that now its time for things to be all about her and what she wants.
And you are STILL making this all about what you want. She says she wants out, but YOU want her to come back.
So you are still being the same selfish person she always saw in you. IF she wants out then so be it. LET her go. Stop contacting her. Stop trying to win her back. Anything else is making it all about you again. You are basically tellling her once again.. "I don't care what you want, give me what i want. I want to stay together, I want you back, I want another chance"
