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[DDogs]

Un F'n believable

Tonight after dinner, I am sitting in the family room with the W and kids. The kids have no idea there is a meeting with the MC tomorrow night. I ask the W, "Is there something you'd like to mention to the kids tonight about tomorrow night?"

W looks blankly,, says "what?" I remind her about the MC and W responds, "Oh, Kids, do you remember the office where we took you a few months ago and waited while mom and dad talked?".. the kids nodded, "well, we have a meeting tomorrow at 7 at the same place for us all to go to."

I correct her and tell her its at 8, and she looks puzzled.. I tell her the appt is for 8.. She nods and says, whatever.

I am adamant that the W take responsibility for the arranging this meeting and I ask the W if she will make sure she gets the kids here, W replies, "no, I can't, you'll have to get them because I am helping host a jewelry party tomorrow night..,

I tell her "no, I can't I had to reschedule work to do this and you'll have to get them there",,, her reply, "Well, then lets reschedule"..WTF... I feel that our kids need some information regarding all that is going on and she wants to reschedule because of an f'n party?????

I can tell the effect of me packing her clothing is probably on her mind and this is why she's behaving like this....I tell her then she has to call the MC and reschedule because, I'm not paying for a late cancelled appt.. she calls and cancels. I then tell W she now has responsibility to tell the kids that we now are NOT having a meeting tomorrow.. so w calls the kids down and casually says, we'll have a new appt at a different time. The kids ask why and w says because of schedules... at this point Im super pissed and speak up and say "kids, mom has a party tomorrow that she'd chooses to go to instead, so we'll do this later in the week".

Now I can see a confused look on S15 face so, I go up to his room we sit down and I begin to explain to him whats going on. I tell him mom and dad are still having problems and the meetting was set up so mom could tell you all that she has seen a lawyer and has begun the divorce process from dad. I say this is what she chooses to do, I disagree, I believe that there are other ways to resolve this but, this is what mom has decided and I am obligated to go along with what happens in court.

I tell him that I love him very much and that I will be around for him and will always be his dad.. the only thing that will probably change is that he will spend some time with mom and then some time with dad... I ask if he has any questions, he replies, well were are we going to live and where will my stuff be? I tell him W and I will be living in different places, and the kids will spen equal time with each of us.. they will stay in the same school, he'll graduate from the same HS and then go on to college,,, that won't change... He is teary eyed as I am and we hug for a long time.... I remind him I love him, he tells me the same.... f the w,

I eventually go downstairs where the wife is smoking on the patio and I go to the door and tell her, she is a real sh!t and the absolute worst mom to these kids for doing this... W shrugs...

I am so sad, so hurt for my kids,, I cannot bear when it comes time to tell my D12/11.... F.F.F.F her, she can kiss my f'n ass for the sh!t that she has put me and now my kids thru,,, F'Her to f'n hell....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!