Tridoc - just chipping in some moral support. Crap, what a day. You're getting good advice. I went through a lot of the same thing - confronting, demanding her to move out (yeah, can't enforce it), etc. Crap, my W actually threatened to call the police once, totally ridiculous (and she admits that - was immediately embarrassed she said it). Tomorrow, go do some lawyer consultations. My wife tried the same thing - talk to my lawyer, we'll do this amicably. You can have your own lawyer and still do a collaborative divorce, if that's what you want to do. Hang in there, this is really really rough, but you will wake up tomorrow and keep trucking.
