My daughter and I spent Sunday shopping for a dress for a formal dance at her school. She recently dumped her boyfriend and a previous one came to the house this week and stayed about an hour. While we were driving yesterday, I asked her what was up with old bf. She said he wanted to get back together but that she did not want a bf right now, that she was never getting married so why bother.

I said, "I don't want you to get married anytime soon but never is a long time."

Her reply...Well, if girls can trust anyone, it should be their daddy and I can't do that. If he will cheat, I am sure the guys I date will lie to me too. I told her that parents sometimes have to lie to their kids but they only do it to spare them pain. She replied that she knows that we will divorce as soon as Son graduates and there is no need to lie anymore.

I was floored. I had always worried that she saw me as weak for staying with H but it seems there are a lot more emotions going on.

Should I tell H what she said?


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11