I replied to your message earlier and noticed it didn't take. Man I am not IT specialist that is for sue.
Anyway, thank you for the getting me up to speed on the ONS'. That would only mildly surprise as the fall from grace has been so rapid and clearly devoid of a parachute.
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I think that the only thing that would wake up a WAW is for them to get into a R w/ OM and have the R run its course.
Everyone in the know regarding the wifes A is of the same opinion, no chance at R until the A runs it's course, however, the OM in the net could be a monkey wrench in that process.
My days snooping are coming to an end as the W will be out of the home by the end of next week. The whole snooping thing has only really served to verify what I already knew except for the realization she is chatting up additional OM. That can't be a good sign. The most disturbing news has long since flowed under the bridge.
I think I am getting close to dropping the rope as well, having her out of the house will only help in completing this task.
She spent most of Sunday painting (or so she told me) at her new apartment. I know I shouldn't waste energy speculating on her mindset but it makes me think she is excited to be on her own and setting up shop. Not something I need to be thinking about.
As far as your first comment, after getting DR I immediately read the section on LRT and realized that I had started implementing much of it before reading about it. However, I did get many ideas about 180's, GAling, acting as if, etc. from being here. This forum has been a gold mine for support and techniques on surviving.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)