What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[DDogs]

Chances are she will be getting the retainer from you. I bet she has her attny file a motion for immediate reimbursement of her legal fees. Of course you will not be doing that!

Get an attny ASAP and get a good one. You have all kinds of info about your W's attny, use it! Get to the courthouse and start researching what firms/attny's have whipped your W's attny in other cases (this is what I did!) then go retain the whippers Is your W stupid that she took you to her attny? My gosh!

Yes to getting your own account and paying the bills. Does she work? Sorry I did not read that far back. If she does not and you support her I would give her a super small "allowance" and you take care of the bills, shopping expenses and kids needs. Give her 5.00 week, lol! Be prepared to get hit with an emergency support motion.

TRIDOC, not an expert by any stretch but, by both of you seeing her L and discussing sensitive issues, that may disqualify her L from representing her (or you)because now of a conflict of interest,, her atty has disclosing info from you that can be used against you... might be worth checking into..