Doc,

Read this:


How to tell the kids

You need set lots of boundaries with W about telling the kids. My wife just blurted it out without any discussion.

"I will not tolerate any lies to our kids"


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712