So now you know who her atty is. Take City Girl's advice and find out who she has lost to - hire that guy...or gal. Think BULLDOG.

Good move on the money. W is SAHM so she depends on your income. Make sure every bill is paid by YOU. Make sure children have EVERYTHING they need and some wants. Get W's fingers out of the cookie jar. Give her - grocery money and an allowance to keep her hair cut. That's about it.

Take her off any credit accts that YOU pay for. A MUST.

What's the cell phone sitch? You pay for that? Turn texting off. She just needs a basic plan to keep in touch with the kids.

Any of these things she doesn't like, she should feel free to pay for herself. You are not funding her new way of life.

So what did she say about OM?

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Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.