Also to cutterbug...sicne you asked that I continue this here...How do you explain that you will not enable an affair when she constantly says that it is not an affair because she did not start it until after she said she wanted a divorce and that she no longer considers us married so there is nothing wrong in what she is doing...she says that yes she married me because she loves me but she also married me because she felt guilty about living together and that she now believes marriage is an archaic christian institution meant to control people and the governments excuse to make money off of it. She said that if two souls connect they should have a right to see where it goes. Is this an example of believe half of what you see and none of what you hear?
Sorry if this confuses anyone. I know this is a little different from my last post here but this is a continuation from the boundaries thread. I need advice on both posts please so do not overlook either one. Thank you all.
