One of the 180 rules was not to speak about the future together. How do I find out what her plans are w/o discussing our future living arrangements? Seems like a violation of this rule if I sit her down and say 'okay, am I going to be living in this new rental or are you getting this place for yourself and taking the kids along with you?'
Along those lines, how tough should I take my stand on saying, 'you want your space, you go rent a place and I'll stay with the kids'? We've already touched on that subject, and her immediate response was, "I'll go get a lawyer. The kids need their mother .... I'm the nurturer ... you can't even comb your daughter's hair!"
At the time of this discussion, I didn't push it because I thought it was a bit pre-mature to start talking lawyers and volleying threats back and forth.
