Tridoc,,, I'd secure your own attorney and I'd speak with him alone. I felt a great sense of calm after sitting and talking with mine and having the facts separated from my very active imagination.
This will help. you have to know the rules and regs to play in the game effectively. My W attorney told her all the things she wanted to hear to get business, mine told me the reality of the situation... I slept better that night.
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09