So when she got home, I gathered up the kids and took them to a partners house. She was wondering what was up, but I think she knew. When I got home she told me that she had just been on the phone with her attorney. Attorney??Apparently she had an appointment with one tomorrow: A mediator ..... signs all over the office. “ The peaceful easy divorce” F*#k that $hit. No divorce is peaceful.
I sat her down and told her to grab a diet coke. I told her everything that RobX said and she told me that it was illegal for me to kick her out. She refused to leave. She made an appointment with the attorney that moment and I went along to meet her. I can’t kick her out legally at this moment.
She hired this woman, but I could tell that she was thinking the same thing that I was. You guys haven’t had counseling?
I sat there and told her the whole story. My W is destroying two families. I told her this. She wants what is best for the kids. I told her what is best for the kids. She sits there and tells me this is what is best. I told her “if the shoe was on the other foot I probably would be telling you the same thing”. Get real!
My wife wants me to go down peacefully. I’m not doing it. I’m hiring a bulldog. If this is what she wants I’m going to crush her and her little fantasy.
Currently, I can’t stand to look at her. She is the scum of the earth. I can’t see how she can make this peaceful for the kids and us with this behavior. What kind of message does this send?
So legally, I can’t kick her out. What do I do now!!!
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.