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[awest1217]

Yeah I haven't said anything else to H. I just responded because I hate when I text him and he doesn't respond so I didn't want to do it back. He still hasn't said anything about getting the mail, but I am sure he isn't even worried about it. Once again he is extremely immature and doesn't think about these things. He just wants to have everyone do everything for him and when he does actually do something it is because he will get something in return. (which is why the money was strange for me and I am still waiting for what he wants). Maybe he is growing up?

The text might have also been a misplaced text to OW since I didn't get anything back after that, or since we had today off, he would have come over today and spent the day with S and I playing Wii, which if more fun than OW because I can at least be competition to H whereas she...well she is a "typical girl". So he probably did miss us, but not enough to come home or even ask to see us.

The inlaws were good. It is never awkward. MIL did ask if I had talked to H this past weekend and I could have right then said no and I haven't heard from him since school started, but instead I just said no because that was the right thing to do then. I am really doing better about just answering questions and not adding my two cents. YEAH ME! It was fun. I found out one of H's cousins is pregnant, first one, and the first grandchild for his aunt and uncle so they are all excited. H's girl cousins and I talked about pregnancy. I helped to clean up, but S was not eating again which led to a long night again last night, but overall it was great and pleasant. Like you, Lucky, I want S to have a good relationship with all of his grandparents and his extended families. I will foster that the best I can. IF it goes to D, I will start to bow out more because it would be weird if H brings his new family and I start dating (no time soon), but for now I go along and keep things open and fun so everyone can enjoy S.

With H, I think honestly, he wants to come home, but he knows what that means, and he won't give up OW so he just continually chooses her over us. Too bad and his loss.

Otherwise an AWESOME DAY! I got so much done and got some really good deals on clothes. I even bought myself my first new purse since probably high school. It was just a great day and I am looking to many more! The best part is I only spend $6 because the rest was gift cards, and tonight off to a Tastefully Simple party with the girls, S is coming too to play with the little boys, then tomorrow back to work, but it is only a 4 day week. Good things are coming and coming so I am just going to keep looking at how awesome I and my life are becoming and not worry about anything else.