The spoiled little boy is getting angry with the new 'me'. He is desperately trying to dig at me. This morning:

Exh: Are you in a better mood today or no? or did I interrupt you yesterday?
Me: Im in a great mood. Do you know what time you will be coming today for your visit? I would like to plan my day.
Exh: Wait! Why so blunt with my yesterday?
Me: I am trying to plan the day. Can you please tell me when you are coming?
Exh: Why? Where do you think you are going in this weather?
Me: I have things to do...again for the third time...when are you coming today?
Exh: I don't know.
Me: Please let me know as soon as you can.

I looked at our papers again. All they say is he has from 3-6 and will call and let me know when. Unfortunately they don't specify when he has to tell me. Its 2:00 right now and still no call telling me when he is coming.

Oh I so want to tell him exactly why I am shutting him down.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!