Moving back in

[DDogs]

UPDATE:

I was reading about Tridocs sitch today and felt relieved that he received the information that he desperately needed, and that his W will get her reality check... I felt such a relief from his new position and frustration from mine, that it motivated me to act regarding my W's history of taking the easy way out.

My past few post were regarding the w not willing to address the situation with the kids in counseling other than telling them a divorce is initiated. She fell back on the lame excuse that she doesn't know how she'll answer any of the kids questions because she doesn't know what she's going to do or what will happen and wants to wait to take the lead of the MC and L...

So this is what I did, after taking the D's out shopping, I came home and packed up all the W's clothing/belongings from the master bedroom (where I have been staying) put them in bags and began placing them in the small guestroom (where W has been staying).

W enters the guest room and asks me what I'm doing, I reply, "W, you were right, we don't know what is going to happen regarding this D, and aren't certain of what to tell the kids so I am helping point us in that direction." "I already have the home up for sale, when it sells, we will both be living in different places. I'm helping you get all your things together. You should probably start looking for places to live as I already have because if the home sells quickly, we can act on a moments notice to move out. This will help us get some realistic ideas to tell the kids what is going to happen."

She just stood there and quietly said ok.. and also helped move a few things..

I'm hoping the reality check of w telling the kids in MC tomorrow in conjunction of coming home to all her personal belongings piled in her room will give her pause to think...

No expectations, but I'm getting tired and frustrated with the plan to respond to W actions which are slow at best as well as seeing no signs of her stopping her intent to D. Last thing W would expect would be for me to push along the D.