Sorry you are having a rough day. I would be afraid of H losing his bolt hole. You will now need somewhere to get away to.
It's too bad that finances are always an issue for everyone. Sometimes I wonder if them having space to be weird or depressed in helps. I fear moving back in with my H at this point. I feel like I would want to see several months of normalcy first, if we ever even get there. Yet I know that's not always financially realistic either. I hope you don't lose your furry friend over finances during this situation. As far as how low you have to go, these situations seem an exercise in humility and humbleness for everyone unfortunately. Hope tomorrow is better.
