Also, I had a coaching session with Dotty a week ago. Any thoughts on what would be the best timing for my second session? She recommended a week or two after the last one, but I'm thinking that might be too soon to get the max benefit in my sitch? There has been some positive in the last week (H confiding a bit more) but really not much new. She had some helpful input, but the session went sooo fast and there was so much background to cover. I don't want to spend the second session just getting the advice to "keep the course" and keep doing the stuff that all of you have been encouraging me to do.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
